Okay. I am absolutely, completely, positively aware that confidence isn't really fashion related, but I thought that it was an important subject that should go on my fashion blog. So I haven't always been so confident. When I say this, I'm not saying that I am super confident at the moment, but I am definitely more confident now than I used to be. Part of the confidence came from my YouTube, and other parts came from getting older, developing who I am, and lastly being hated on.
If you want to just watch a video on how I mainly became confident, then watch the video below this post. The video describes how I became the girl that I am today.
Starting off you should be completely comfortable with yourself, because if you don't accept who you are, then why should other people? This can take a whilem because you might accept yourself at one point, but you might make a drastic change (like me), and have to start from the beginning. It is kind of like getting a new hair cut. People get their hair trimmed all the time (these are like small changes that are easy to accept), but whn you hop off your hair and get an entirely new hair do, it can take time to get used to.
The main rule to accepting yourself is that you have to accept who you want to be, not who others want you to be. Because here is a difference between being confident while singing in the shower and being confident while singing in front of an audience.
I hope that this helps some of you girls/guys who are struggling with confidence, and trying to figure out who YOU really want to be and who you are right now.
Comment if you have any other questions (you can leave the comment as "Anonymous" if you are embarrassed to ask.
PS: The video below is a video telling how I became me. Watch it if you are interested!
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